Friday, September 24, 2010

I know you didn't know (because I wasn't telling anyone)

Outside of my immediate family, I have not shared all that has been going on with us. I'm ready now to tell all.
(Heads up: this is not baby news.)

First, just days before our Puerto Vallarta vacation, I was laid off from my job. They want to take the office in a new direction, so I got a "thank you" for my efforts and a month's severance.

What a way to start a vacation, right?

While being unemployed is stressful, I was actually grateful to be let go! I hated doing reception work and missed being a paralegal. But since Monico was likewise unemployed (without a teaching contract for the fall), and the employment climate is rough, I didn't know how I could leave. But, by being laid off, I qualified for unemployment! Plus, a month's severance would help us make it through August (until Monico found a job and/or we got an influx of financial aid).

In the time following our very relaxing vacation, I didn't really put much effort into looking for a job, because I had a secret...


I had time to think while on vacation about what I was going to do now that I was unemployed. The more I thought about it, the more I questioned what I was doing with my life and understood how many opportunities were passing me by. So, after we got back from Mexico, without Monico's knowledge, I enrolled with Highline Community College.


Using my prior BYU credits, I should be able to get my AA in 1 year, finishing it up around the same time Monico finishes his second Master's Degree. I can then tranfer/continue on to get my bachelor's degree at a 4 year university.

I don't know how to make this sound more WOW, but my going to school is kinda a big deal. I quit BYU nearly 12 years ago, I have been repeatedly told that I should go back since then. Finally, after spending the last 8+ years focused on Monico's education, I'm ready to do school work for my own benefit again. But, having left BYU with rather dismal grades, I need to prove any future university I attend that I can be serious about school, so my goal is to achieve an A in every class at Highline.

In addition, because I am enrolled in school, I felt I owed it to myself to not work full time. Gratefully -- using a mutual contact -- I procured employment with another firm, where I will have flexibility in my schedule and can work around my classes (which I can take during the day, at night, or via online), and where I will once again be a paralegal, being paid a paralegal wage (aka 25% more than my last job!) to do the work I love in guardianships, estate planning, and probates. It is a small firm, with only ONE attorney. I am working at home for now, because there isn't an office available for me. (Lexi is very happy about that.)


I'M SO EXCITED! I love drafting and revising original documents and meeting with clients, all for the purpose of enriching their lives. (I'm soooo over litigation cases!) I'm extremely grateful to my friend who helped me get the job, as I was hired based on "I trust her judgement, so you're hired!"

My office (aka, home).

My work/files (and my view!).
When the occasion arises that I have to commute to work, it is a mere 2 miles away in downtown Renton. (My old commute to downtown took 45-60 minutes each way.) Because we only have one car, we located and cash-purchased a low-miles scooter. It gets roughly 100 miles to the gallon, costs $120 a year for full coverage insurance, and doesn't require a motorcycle license to operate. In other words, it is pretty darn economical. And, it is pretty darn cute too! Not so much fun in the rain, of course, but since it is only 2 miles, it really isn't a big deal.


Not wanting to leave out Monico's accomplishments: in late August, he obtained new employment in the Seattle School District as a EBD (Emotional Behavior Disorder) Special Education teacher at Garfield High School, just down the street (literally 11 blocks) from Seattle University. So, on nights when he has class, he has a super-sweet commute from work to school. The position is 1.0 FTE, which is 100% full time and allows him to receive 100% of his union-monitored salary and benefits. Hooray for medical coverage - his first in almost 4 years!

Garfield High School

Monico also started his football coaching career by volunteering with the team. Their game against Seattle Prep last week was his first as "coach." (That's him below with his team.) He is working with his bread-n-butter: defensive line. He is already learning so much from the other coaches and is eager to continue volunteering with Basketball in the winter as well. And that's what we've been up to.

My classes started just this week; I'm jumping right back in by taking 11 credits. I have about 40 credits available for transfer from BYU (stupid religion classes don't even register as an elective!), and need 90 for my AA, so I need to get crack-a-lackin' if I'm gonna be done in a year. So enough blogging... I need read about the Progessive Era in the US and write a short essay about the impact of advertising on society before I go to work!

6 comments:

mom/Janet said...

I'm exhausted after reading this but also excited and proud of both of you. Sounds like you're going to have a great - - - -busy year. Enjoy!!

Abbie said...

Huge smile on my face! I am so happy for you guys. Wow, after so many years of hardship, struggle and dedicated work it looks like things are looking so good for you guys. I am so proud of you Melissa!

Emalei Ambrosio said...

OMG! This is fantastic! You are SO smart. You will do so well in school! So, my big question is, what do you want to major in? Will you head towards a law degree? That would be awesome! :) SO happy for you and Monico!!!

donna said...

i am so happy for you.. GOOD luck with everything. ; )

Michelle Olson said...

Just left a big comment, but it booted me off. How annoying. IN short, you are a genious, so happy for you, and you really haven't "stopped" going to school;)

Mickell Schena said...

Melissa Congrats on everything.. Love ya tons